不必纠结，人生就是一场体验罢了！
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>《杨绛传》中有这样一段话：“把圈子变小，把语速放缓，把心放宽，把生活打理简单。用心做好手边的事情，不恋尘世浮华，不写红尘纷扰。看天上的月，吹人间的风。过平常的日子，该有的，总会有。”</p><p>人生属于自己的时间本来就不多，不要做一些无用的应酬和社交，如果浪费时间和精力去做一些无用的事情，活着是吃吃喝喝，也是浪费生命。</p><p>若是懂得把自己的圈子变小，那么，就是明白了把有限的时间用在有意义的事情上，只有删繁就简，才能享受到安然生活的好。</p><p>人际关系固然重要，但是，也要有所选择，让自己懂得拒绝，也懂得有所为有所不为。</p><p>当我们把自己的圈子变小了，也就有了独处的世界，可以安放自己的一颗浮躁的心，做自己喜欢的事情，而不被繁杂琐碎的事情所打扰。</p><p>把心放宽，把语速放慢，过属于自己的慢生活，也是一种高贵。</p><p>稻盛和夫： “说话只要声音一低，你的声音就会有磁性，说话只要一慢，你就会有气质，你敢停顿就能显示出权威，任何时候都不要紧张，永远展现出舒适放松的状态。”</p><p>无论在何时，都不要让自己慌慌张张，匆匆忙忙，要在快节奏的生活中，懂得让自己慢下来，才会消除内心的焦躁不安。</p><p>能够控制好自己的语言节奏，也是控制好了自己的情绪，从而不会忙中出错，祸从口出，放慢语速是一种自信和放松的姿态，是内心平和，深思熟虑之后，才能明确而清晰地表达。</p><p>著名作家、画家丰子恺曾经说过这样的话：“心小，小事也会变大；心大，大事也能变小。”</p><p>把心放宽，就是心胸和格局变大了，内心平静，人生豁达，对别人宽容理解，让自己学会自律。</p><p>放宽心，也就少了很多烦恼，若是不计较，不为小事而让自己烦恼，不与人攀比，以平常心去对待生活和感情，接纳一切，放过别人，也是放过自己。</p><p>让自己活的简单一点，就是对生活的尊重，当自己活得简单了，人生中也就有了不期而遇的美好。</p><p>杨绛先生也曾说过：“我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现，人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容。”</p><p>物质极简，生活简单，对应的就是精神上的丰富，简单的生活让我们活得淡定从容，不忧不惧。</p><p>在这个繁杂的世界里，能够活得云淡风轻 ，也是淡看世事繁华，内心安然无恙的一种清欢。</p><p>当我们不被红尘繁杂所累，保持内心的淡定与从容，这才是人生最美的风景。</p><p>所以，无论我们多忙，都不要忘记让自己慢下来，享受生活，思考人生，反省自己，在忙碌的生活中，不要忽略了身边的美好。</p><p>当你有些迷茫，有些痛苦的时候，不妨抬头看看天，若是懂得发现，生活简单，处处美好。</p><p>当我们活明白了，就会知道，人生所有的失去，都会以另一种方式归来。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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