你去寺院上香拜佛，目的是什么呢？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>去过寺庙的人，都会发现这样一件有趣的事情，众人烧香，皆有所求。穷问富，富问路，有富有路问劫数。</p><p>可是不管哪一本经书，句句都是在劝我们要放下。在济南的兴国禅寺，有一副石刻对联：暮鼓晨钟，惊醒世间名利客，经声佛号，唤回苦海梦迷人。</p><p>其实，大部分人到寺院，拜的都不是佛，而是自己的欲望。没有得到的，想得到，得到的又怕失去，想要留住，这都是欲望。</p><p>山是山，海是海，只有自己最精彩。人心本无累，累的是放不下的太多，生活本不苦，苦的是我们欲望太多。</p><p>繁华三千，看淡即是浮云。烦恼无数，想开就是晴天。我们去寺庙的真正意义，不应该是去求名利，而是静心，修心，观自在。</p><p>人这一辈子，起落沉浮，尽管人生不易，但请你相信，前方总有美好在等着你。你的每一次用心付出，都是在为自己积攒福报，对他人赠予的温柔，修的是自己的福。</p><p>既然活着，就应该向阳而生。眼里藏着美好，少纠结，少忧虑。知命，不怨天；知己，不怨人。万般皆是命，半点不由人。</p><p>悲喜交加的生活，总会有不如意之事，是上天冥冥之中的注定，也是命运使然，我们左右不了，所以更不能伤春悲秋，活在阴影之下，不如随缘便而行，或许也是一种福气。</p><p>你不能强求事事如你所愿，所以你要学会看淡看轻。看淡那些不属于自己的东西，放下那些不属于自己的幸福，你才能花香自来，拥有整片花海。</p><p>总结一下：人这一生真正能给你撑腰的，是丰富的知识储备，足够的经济基础，持续的情绪稳定，可控的生活节奏，和那个打不败的自己。你，认可吗？</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" 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在哪里存在，就在哪里绽放。不要因为难过，就忘了散发芳香。 例二 发表于 2023-11-1 11:12一个心里安慰，一份寄托，心里埋下的一粒希望的种子……
一样，就是这种心里，自我安慰吧 心理安慰
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