人生就是一场修行，2024年您好！
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010501" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010501"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>弘一法师曾说：“独处，是为了不陪他人演戏；不争，是为了放过自己内心；远离，是对伤害最大的鄙视；人与人之间最好的关系是没有关系。不远不近的关系，适合所有情感。因为与任何人走得太近，都会是一场灾难。”</p><p>人生就像一场修行，我们曾经渴望在热闹拥挤的人群中寻找存在感，消除孤独感。然而，我们也知道，再美丽的鲜花都有凋谢之时，再热闹的人群终究有散场之时。</p><p>独处，是我们回归安静的空间，享受着身旁的一草一木。这个世界只属于我们一个人，我们可以安心做自己，不用周旋他人，不用演戏。曾国藩说：“一曰慎独而心安。”能够谨慎独处的人，可以让自己内心安宁。</p><p>不争，是为了放过自己的内心。每个人的思想和三观都有所不同，有时争论只是徒劳无功。世间本就包罗万象，五花八门，每个人的认知有限，道理都是站在自身利益出发。因此，学会用包容、理解的心态看待人与人之间的区别，我们会活得坦然自在。</p><p>远离那些无底线的挑战和欺负，无视他们的存在。有些人的恨、嫉妒和诋毁是没有原因的，就是人性的黑暗和心胸狭窄。对于这种不讲道理的人，我们无需回应。</p><p>人与人之间保持一定的距离是必要的。过于亲近可能会导致灾难，而保持一定的距离则可以产生美。出言有尺，嬉闹有度，做事有余，知分寸，懂进退，这样才能让大家都舒心。</p><p>人生就是一场修行，我们需要学会在独处与人群中找到平衡。通过谨慎独处、不争、远离伤害和保持适当的距离，我们可以更好地修行自己，活得坦然自在。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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